I didn’t choose this path; it chose me.
2x Cancer Survivor. Master Educator. Sovereign Matriarch. 🕊️

I see the playbook; I’m raising my kids to see it too. 👁 I am the Midwest Millennial Mama – here to expose the scripts that divide us, protect our Iowa land, and teach the next generation. Welcome to my awakening. ✨️
I’m a survivor, an educator, and most importantly a Midwest Millennial Mama. The lens is finally clear, and I’m inviting you to pull up a chair. Explore the site. Read the archives. Join the conversation.

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What Ron Paul’s 2002 Prediction Teaches Us About Today

Why weren’t the adults listening? 🚩 In 2002, I was 12. I was worried about middle school dances and Lip Smacker gloss. But while we were growing up, the foundation for the ‘Forever Wars’ and the economic shifts we’re living through now was being laid and one man was shouting into the void about it……
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The Siblings I Always Dreamed Of

Growing up as an only child, I had a very specific vision of what siblings were like. Now that I’m raising siblings, I realize I was right, but I also had no idea just how loud, messy, and deeply beautiful it actually is. Being an only child gives you a perspective on siblings that people…
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The Simulation is Glitching: America in 2026

Two Shows, Two Screens, and a Whole Lot of “What is Happening?” 😵💫 Is it just me, or does tonight feel like we finally hit the peak of the simulation? I’m currently sitting here with two screens open, watching the world split in two. On one side, we have the NFL’s official show, a global,…
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Pain into Purpose: Protecting Iowa

After preschool pick-up today, I went and fought to protect Iowa’s air, land, and water. I didn’t change out of my “mama gear,” and I didn’t leave my survivor story at the door. I walked into the State Capitol because the health of our children shouldn’t be a “future” problem—it’s a right-now crisis. As I…
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From Cancer Survivor to Political Orphan: Why I’m Done with Party Loyalty

For years, I’ve carried a label that no longer fits. I’ve been a registered Democrat since 2008, a college kid inspired by the hope of the Obama era. I’ve never changed that registration, yet my ballot tells a different story. I have voted for both Democrats and Republicans, but today, I find myself in a…
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The Monster in the Room

There is a specific kind of “quiet” that comes after cancer treatment, but it isn’t always peaceful. For many, it feels like living with a monster lurking just over your shoulder, silent but present, waiting for the right moment to step back into the light. Most people in their thirties are planning their next decade.…
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Real Life vs. The Noise

Cancer gives you a vision the world tries to take away. 🕊️🎗️ While I was fighting for my life, my world got very small, very fast. When you’re staring at a hospital ceiling, you don’t care about the viral outrage of the day. You don’t care about political propaganda or the “scandal” in another state.…
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Behind the Locked Doors

Right now, 15,000 nurses in New York City are on the picket lines. While the headlines talk about wages and benefits, there is a deeper, more chilling demand at the heart of this strike: Workplace safety and violence protections. For anyone who hasn’t lived in a hospital for weeks at a time, this might sound…


13 responses to “Welcome”
👊🏼 yes girl
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I am compelled to continue sharing my story. I appreciate the support! 🤗
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I am so excited for you!
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Thank you for the encouragement to share what’s on my heart. 🤍
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I am sooo proud of you!! You are an inspiration!! Keep being you Lady!!
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Thank you! I felt a calling to share my story. Hopefully I will inspire others to join the stem cell registry & donate blood. My life was saved because of those selfless acts. 🥹🙏🏻
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I have always been in your corner and am excited to continue watching you grow and inspire others….much love
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Thank you so much, Kathy! I appreciate your support. 🫶🏻
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This is amazing! I’m in awe of the strong leader you are and can’t wait to see what the future brings for you! You are inspiring!
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Thank you, Nicole! I am being called to share my story. ✨️🙏🏻
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This is amazing. Your voice, your story, and your positivity are exactly what so many people need. Watching you walk through this with so much courage has already inspired me, and now you’re creating a space to lift up others too. I’m so proud of you and can’t wait to see the impact this has 💛
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Thank you so much, Amanda! 🤍 I have already heard from other blood cancer warriors that are looking at my story as a sign of hope! That’s all I could wish for. ✨️
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I just started my journey with MDS blood cancer on Thanksgiving. I can’t qualify for a bone marrow transplant ever because of my age. 73. I just realized I have to have an injection every three weeks and a blood draw two days after each one for the rest of my life. I am at the beginning, and I have a different cancer. You are such a survivor I can see that. Yes, you are inspirational, but I am going thru grief. I just went from denial to depression and anger. I am not at the acceptance stage as I am not even two months in. My first blood transfusion is tomorrow. I am so glad that I too have my faith, and I know that I am being carried by God and He is there even with me when I don’t sense his presence when I am in deep depression. Also, not stable rapid-cycling bipolar. I have microscopic colitis that can keep me home. A solo senior with no family. Parent have died. No spouse, no children. My niece immigrated to Israel. My goddaughter just got married to an Aussie and has immigrated to Australia. My two close friends are out of town. My brother is out of town. It makes it hard. And people that I thought were friends really aren’t. Maybe they are afraid of my diagnosis. But my doctor and his nurse are lovely, and Scripps Torrey Pines staff are great. A very warm environment. Alot of people with MDS are flying in from around the country as it is a rare blood cancer. San Diego. Thank you for letting me vent. I had to push for an appointment and I had to advocate to see a doctor and get a bone biopsy. I’m good at advocating. So many more illness. It is just shocking to me. I didn’t expect my life to be like this at 73 but you just don’t know what struggle you will have in life and we all have struggles and tragedies. No one escapes them.
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